So, you have joined the ranks of the unfaithful, hey?
Does that sound harsh?
Sorry if it does, but I don’t have much respect for most divorcees.
In most cases, I think divorcees really need a good swift kick in the behind.
Again, I know that sounds harsh, but I have seen what divorce does for women, and it’s not good.
I think there’s been an international media campaign for over fifty years to create divorce in America.
Don’t believe me?
Well, if you research divorce statistics in America, you will find that divorce rose precipitously in the 1960s. This is when the satanic forces bought out all the major movie studios in Hollywood and started their campaign to destroy the nuclear family in the West.
Don’t believe me?
They started with Television, because they knew that in the forties, fifties and sixties, most American women stayed at home and looked after the kids and the house. Women were easy targets because they can easily be manipulated compared to men. The reason for this ease of manipulation is because women are primarily driven by emotions.
This is why most divorces today (50-75%) are filed by women. Women will make a serious decision like divorce and not consider the long-term consequences of such a choice.
Now, I know, I know, you’re probably thinking: Well, he doesn’t know my situation, my husband was X,Y, or Z…
Please, save me your sob story.
What likely happened is that you kept testing him and being disrespectful to him, and drove him away. Again, sounds harsh doesn’t it?
Well, I don’t take it back,
I mean it!
If you were any type of a woman, you would have kept the marriage together…
Still there?
You see, the success of a marriage depends largely on the efforts of the woman. If she can be sweet, feminine, and loyal, she will keep even the most cantankerous of husbands.
But today, all we have, thanks to the aforementioned media propaganda, are women who want their rights, and want to snip off their husband’s balls and carry them around in their purse. Too many women have forgotten their own power–an indirect power–that helps to guide the loving force of their husbands.
But you didn’t know about that did you?
No, you chose divorce.
Shame for you…
Why do I say that? Well…because….
In a lot of cases, divorce leads to poverty. If not in a financial sense, certainly in a spiritual and psychological sense. It is a sub-par situation, and is not what God had in mind when he gave us the Covenant of Marriage.
So, what should you do?
I think you should start to study and figure out what it means to be a good and dependable woman–a woman who stands by her man.
But to get more granular, why don’t you learn the Queen’s Code? This code will help you a great deal. It may be too late to save your marriage, but it’s never too late to learn about motivating and inspiring men. Like it or not, we need men–so, why not be a woman who understands men and knows how to get the best out of them, regardless of their age (it works for boys too). Simply knowing their psychology will help you a great deal.
Now, I tell you this not so that you can go and get Re-Married. Doing so will make you nothing more than an adulteress. Sorry to inform you, but per the biblical principals, women who remarry when their first and covenant husband are still alive are committing adultery.
Instead, why don’t you return to your husband and apologize to him and ask for his forgiveness.
Sound absurd? Well, perhaps it’s not.
Perhaps you could do something grand for yourself and for your relationship.
But if not, if reconciliation seems too big of a nut to crack, stay single and learn to love God. Learn to develop a relationship with Him.
This book can help you in that search, give it a try.
In the end, I don’t think God is going to send you to hell for being a single mother and unfaithful wife, but you certainly have created negative karma you will have to work through.
I wish you the best.
Sincerely,
Archer Avelin
Beyond Dating 